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Saturday, 26 July 2014

#SENSEofSEX: gains and pains of coital experience




CULTURAL DIMENSION OF SEX
          Down recorded history, humans living in society have always encouraged and celebrated the arrival of new babies.  A major reason is the increase in the population of first, the family and by extension, the community, therefore the race.  The sole agent  in this indispensable phenomenon is coitus.  By the enlargement of the human society, continued existence of human beings on planet earth is assured and the presently perceptible reality of posterity, is made more palpable.
          Sex therefore, has incredibly compelling influence, far beyond the physical exercise of coming into and experiencing one another, in the space between our legs.  The couple who desired and delivered babies have the fulfillment of fertility, and appreciation of biological integrity.  In various cultures, all privileges that that accrue to one who brings forth a child, would come upon the new parents.  Denial of these privileges to others who, for no fault of theirs perhaps, are infertile would often enough, bring heartrending anguish.  It follows then that any person who is incapable, for whatever reason, to perform the full coital act, would see himself as reduced, perhaps a destitute of sorts.

QUALIFICATION OF SEX
          In itself, sexual intercourse could create exhilarating vibrations through the entire body system.  This is more so, when there is orgasmic consummation in termination of coitus.  The floating drowsiness that follows is reminiscent of the poets image of Heavenly Bliss.  The body is visibly resuscitated, and the seeming slumber in its wake gives seamless transition into transcendental sleep.  One actually wakes up a complete alien to oneself.  THIS IS SEX UNCORRUPTED BY DISTRACTING COMPLEXITIES FROM LIVING IN ORGANIZED SOCIETY, AND LIVING WITH SUPERSTITIOUS ANECDOTES, STRANGE  DOCTRINE AND IMPOSSIBLE DOGMA.   

          Orgasmic thrills as defined above is broth brewed for and experienced by choice humans.  First and foremost, there must be deep seated feeling of mutual respect between the partners, such that they would genuinely desire to give each other unalloyed satisfaction.  To many who would consider this, the term LOVE would be apt.  Accordingly, feeling of guilt must be absent.  It has a powerful oppressive presence upon the mind, forcing the coital exercise to be virtual mechanical manipulation of limbs, in meaningless motion.  Guilt also would come from coming together with a partner that, by legal implication belongs to someone else, perhaps by marriage.  If intercourse occurs with a partner below the legal age of consent, or outside the confines of religious definition of APPROPRIATE SEXUAL PARTNER, one is bound to feel guilt.  If added to all this, the environment is inappropriate due to absence of privacy, fear of discovery wreaks further damage on the coital experience.

          It happens all the time that, sexual performance loses its compelling attraction when orgasm is not achieved at the end.  Factors responsible for this go beyond the two mentioned above.  Prodigal submission of oneself to constipated consumption, would create medical situation whereby, the coital facilities within the precious space between our legs become atrophied.  Quite often these facilities lose acuity of sensitivity, and in extreme cases they get numbed and totally insensitive, ravaged by countless number of venereal diseases.  Repeated and mindless desire to achieve unsurpassed number of sex partners, would also lead to deterioration of the delicate organs of coitus, and frustrated sexual life.

          Obsession with sex is another damaging factor in the efforts to sustain orgasmic  pleasure in a given coital exercise.  When thoroughly examined, it is often discovered that psychological, and even, psychiatric problems are responsible.  Whatever be the case, moving from one partner to the other in an endless race to find the "PERFECT PARTNER" is incontrovertibly, detrimental to the realization of ORGASMIC BLISS, which is the end goal of all sexual experiences!  THE ASSUAGING TRUTH HERE, IS THAT EVERYONE HAS THE NATURAL POTENTIAL TO DELIVER AND GIVE FULFILLING SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP, WHEN THE NEED ARISES.

          Therefore, the preoccupation should be with unlocking, as it were, the wholesome coital goodness in a given partner.  To start with, the questing human must recognize the cosmic propensity of the magnetic field around everyone, to pull into it only persons, things, and circumstances of similar nature.  The principle advice then would be for the    individual concerned to approach persons of close likeness to him.  Conversely, he should consider increasing his own worth by learning, and exercises on discipline, in order to be like the partner he mostly desires.  On coming upon the partner of choice, one should immediately commence treating him like oneself.  He should refrain from giving out to his partner that which he would not wish for himself.  But being human prone to err, the human desirous of orgasmic bliss, should resignedly take back, whatever it was he gave out, no matter how unattractive it turned out.  Having done this, the relationship now swings back onto a clean slate.

          So much has been done now, in examining the gains and pains of coital experience, that we may accept qualification to enter coitus proper.  As one prepares for an important event days, even months in advance, CONSUMMATE COITAL ELEVATION most certainly, demands such deliberate consideration.  All emotions of stress and antagonism must be shelved.  Hostilities of all kinds must in like manner, be waved off.  In the same vein, thoughts and attitudes that engender fear and guilt have to be dismissed from the environment of coitus.

          Coitus must then be approached with a clean and clear mind, uncluttered by distractions discussed in details earlier.  There has to be ample time for contemplation before the act.  And generous time to gracefully, without unholy haste in attending to the finer details of sexual intercourse.  Finally, in slow but steady swooning out from the haze of orgasm fulfilled, there simply has to be total time, to relish the exhilarating experience just descended from.  The sleep that follows is simply TRANSENDENTAL!   

RESORT TO REASON
          BUT WHEN THE QUESTING HUMAN CONSIDERS EVERYTHING AND STILL FAILS TO FIND COITAL FULFILMENT IN ANY PARTNER, HE OR SHE COULD TURN INWARDS TO SELF.  TO THE GLORIFICATION OF THE ALMIGHTY DEITY, EVERY HUMAN IS EQUIPED WITH THE BIOLOGICAL ABILITY OF GIVING HIMSELF OR HERSELF THIS PRECIOUS ORGASMIC BLISS, IN MASTURBATION!  IT IS ALL IN THE MIND.  WHAT IS REQUIRED IS A HEALTHY FACILITY OF IMAGINATION, AND THE REQUISITE PRIVACY.  PERHAPS BY THE ELIMINATION OF COMPLEXITIES OF MANAGING AN AFFAIR WITH ANOTHER ADULT, ONE IS PERFECTLY POSITIONED TO A CEACELESS FLOW OF, VIRTUALLY, UNIMAGINABLE SEXUAL EXPERIENCE, CONSUMMATED WITH TRANSCENDENTAL ORGASMIC PLEASURE, IN THE #SENSEofSEX!  

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